Are alphas happier in relationships—happier than whom? Who's happier, driver or passenger? Vanilla or BDSM? Fat or thin? Happiness in choice: did you choose it, or imposed? Are you yourself, needs met, good relationships, enjoying life? People must find selves, be free, do what fits, meet needs. Dating same: alpha leads boldly, beta follows passively. Choice determines joy. Authentic self attracts fulfilling bonds. Imposed roles breed resentment.

Society shamed my natural alpha way—dominant, bold—as bad, shameful; pushed subservient, fragile role for love. Never came. Only when trashed instructions, pursued desires: happiest ever. Beta can be happy if fits—nurturer over Obama. Fat happier than thin sometimes. Shades: some thrive in pain, drama. Diversity exists. Dating: alpha owns frame, gets passionate partners; beta scraps approval. Happiness personal, but alpha path frees natural men. Shame kills vibe.

Who’s “happier”? Don’t care. Care unhappy find happiness. Alpha-beta describes, not imposes. Useful: choose stance, predict outcomes, understand, gain wisdom. Wisdom or mushy lies? What makes you happy? Society forces push down natural masculinity. Fighting them happy. Others happy too. Dating culture segregates alphas as “toxic”; they fight back. Like races, sexes. Embrace alpha traits: confidence, leadership. Builds strong relationships. Beta comfort temporary illusion.

Feminism narrative pushes natural men down, punishes masculinity. You see fat/slut shaming wrong; miss man-shaming. See patriarchy stereotyping; miss feminism fixing men as “dangerous mistakes.” Transgender expression ok; men’s not. One-liner insufficient. Dating: alpha men express freely, attract women craving strength. Betas suppressed, relationships suffer. Grasp truth: natural dominance key to mutual passion. Fight suppression. Happiness follows authenticity.